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STAINED book cover

Sarah, a teen with a port-wine stain and body image issues, is abducted, and must find a way to rescue herself.

“Powerful. I raced through it, wanting to know if Sarah would find a way to escape both her captor and her self-doubts. A real nail-biter!“
- April Henry, NY Times bestselling author of The Girl Who Was Supposed to Die

SCARS book cover

Kendra must face her past and stop hurting herself--before it's too late.

Awards: #1 in the Top 10 ALA Quick Picks, ALA's Rainbow List, a Governor General Literary Award Finalist, Staff Pick for Teaching Tolerance.

Yes, it's my own arm on the cover of SCARS.

HUNTED book cover

Caitlyn, a telepath in a world where having any paranormal power at all can kill her, must decide between saving herself or saving the world.

Awards: A finalist for the Monica Hughes Award for Science Fiction and Fantasy, and the Ruth and Sylvia Schwartz Award.

PARALLEL VISIONS book cover

Kate sees visions of the future--but only when she has an asthma attack. When she "sees" her sister being beaten, and a schoolmate killing herself, Kate must trigger more attacks--but that could kill her.

Awards: 2013 Gold Winner, Wise Bear Digital Awards, YA Paranormal category.

STAINED book cover

Sarah, a teen with a port-wine stain and body image issues, is abducted, and must find a way to rescue herself.

“Powerful. I raced through it, wanting to know if Sarah would find a way to escape both her captor and her self-doubts. A real nail-biter!“
- April Henry, NY Times bestselling author of The Girl Who Was Supposed to Die

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Girls Are Strong! (And Boys Are, Too.) 17 Ways To Be Strong

by Cheryl Rainfield, the award-winning author of STAINED, SCARS, and HUNTED, 2013

We are often told through the media and society that girls aren’t strong—and that boys aren’t emotionally strong—but we are. There are many ways we can be strong and save ourselves. Here are seventeen ways that Sarah in STAINED, and I, saved ourselves, and that you can, too:

1.) Trust your intuition, even when people pressure you not to or say that you are wrong.

2.) Believe in yourself the way you believe in those you love. Recognize your good qualities and strengths.

3.) Find or create your own heroes, real or imagined, that you can learn from.

4.) Protect yourself and others from bullying if you can. If you can’t, tell someone.

5.) Give compassion and kindness to others AND to yourself. That takes strength and courage.

6.) Take in the positives that other people give you, and remind yourself of them frequently.

7.) Follow your passions, even if other people make fun of them. Do what makes you happy.

8.) Find a way to say what you really think and feel through writing, talking, art, dance, etc. You may be surprised at how many people will relate when you are emotionally honest.

9.) Love and accept your body and look critically at the media. Remember that ads are airbrushed and are not real, and are meant to target insecurities.

10.) Protect yourself emotionally if you are being abused or criticized. Keep hold of your soul, your goodness, and don’t let anyone twist them. If you have to hide them from an abuser, do so.

11.) Take positive emotional risks. When you care about someone, let them know.

12.) Ask for help when you need it, and accept it when you’re given it.

13.) Face the hard things—emotional pain, trauma, memories—and talk them out. You will heal faster.

14.) Find a way to escape abuse. That can mean you: tell someone; ask for help; psychologically fight back; find a way to leave or get safe; physically fight back if you have no other alternative. If you don’t get safe at first, keep trying. You will do it.

15.) Take self-defense classes. Learn how to physically protect yourself when you need to.

16.) Don’t give up on yourself. No matter how awful things seem, if you keep working toward safety and happiness you will get there, as long as you’re still alive to do so. Keep hold of your needs and dreams.

17.) Believe that it will get better. It will.

How are you strong? How do you protect yourself?

In STAINED, Sarah thinks she knows what fear is—until she’s abducted. Now she must find a way to rescue herself.

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